Illinois Divorce Mediation Lawyers

Resolve Divorce
With Less Conflict, Stress, and Cost

Divorce mediation helps couples work through important decisions outside of court whenever possible. Our team helps spouses negotiate parenting plans, financial agreements, property division, and other divorce-related issues while reducing conflict and maintaining greater control over the outcome.

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How We Handle Divorce Mediation

We Help Couples Resolve Divorce
Through Mediation

Not every divorce needs to become a courtroom battle. Many couples want a process that reduces conflict, protects children, preserves resources, and helps them move forward with dignity. Divorce mediation provides a structured environment where agreements can often be reached more efficiently than traditional litigation.

What Is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is a voluntary process where spouses work with a neutral mediator to discuss and resolve issues such as parenting time, property division, child support, maintenance, and other divorce-related matters. The goal is to reach mutually acceptable agreements without extensive court involvement.

Is Mediation Required in Illinois?

In many Illinois counties, mediation may be required when parents disagree about parenting responsibilities or parenting time. Even when not required, many couples choose mediation because it often reduces conflict, cost, and time compared to litigation.

Is Mediation Right for Every Divorce?

No. While mediation works well for many couples, some situations involving domestic violence, abuse, hidden assets, severe power imbalances, or highly contentious disputes may require a different approach. During your consultation, we can help determine whether mediation is appropriate for your circumstances.

Here's How We Handle
Divorce Mediation

Most people entering mediation want the same thing: a fair resolution without unnecessary conflict. Our role is to facilitate productive discussions, identify areas of agreement, resolve disagreements when possible, and help create practical solutions that work for both parties and their children.

Initial Consultation & Mediation Assessment

Information Gathering & Issue Identification

Structured Mediation Sessions

Drafting Settlement Agreements

Final Approval & Moving Forward

1. Initial Consultation & Mediation Assessment

We begin by understanding your goals, concerns, family dynamics, financial circumstances, and whether mediation is a good fit. We explain the process and answer questions so everyone understands what to expect.

2. Information Gathering & Issue Identification

Before productive discussions can occur, both parties need a clear understanding of finances, parenting concerns, assets, debts, and outstanding issues. We help organize the information necessary for meaningful negotiations.

3. Structured Mediation Sessions

During mediation sessions, we guide discussions involving parenting plans, property division, support obligations, and other issues. Our goal is to help both parties communicate effectively and work toward practical agreements.

4. Drafting Settlement Agreements

As agreements are reached, we help document the terms clearly and accurately. Proper documentation helps avoid misunderstandings and creates a roadmap for implementation after the divorce is finalized.

5. Final Approval & Moving Forward

Once agreements are finalized, they can be submitted to the court as part of the divorce process. Couples leave with a clearer path forward and legally recognized agreements that support long-term stability.

Working With Us

Here's What You Can Count On

Family law cases run long. The right working relationship matters as much as the right legal strategy. These are the standards we hold ourselves to, every day, from your first call through your final order.

Communication Standard

We respond to every client message within one business day, often the same day. When your attorney is in court, the team responds first so you always know we have heard you.

Who Makes The Decisions

We explain your options in plain English, give you our recommendation, and tell you the tradeoffs. We never settle, file a motion, or commit you to anything without your written authorization.

Billing Transparency

Every invoice is itemized so you see exactly what we did and what it cost. If a strategic choice will add meaningful cost, we tell you before we do the work.

Documentation Rhythm

After every hearing, negotiation, or strategic decision, you get a written summary of what happened, what was decided, and what comes next. You always have a record to re-read when the moment is calmer.

Our Team

Meet The Team Families Trust
During Difficult Times

We help families navigate divorce, custody, child support, mediation, LGBTQ family law, and complex financial matters. Our approach is direct: clear communication, practical strategy, and a steady hand through every decision.

Olivia Long, Founder & Principal Attorney at O. Long Law, LLC
Olivia Long
Founder & Principal Attorney

Olivia practices family law to help others add value to their lives.

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Alexandra Neukirch, Of Counsel at O. Long Law, LLC
Alexandra Neukirch
Of Counsel

Alex became a lawyer to help clients through life's toughest moments.

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Jessica Mansbacher Kibbe, Family Law Attorney at O. Long Law, LLC
Jessica Mansbacher Kibbe
Family Law Attorney

Jessica practices family law to be a steadfast guide through challenging times.

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Legal Assistant

Lizbeth Reyes-Guzman

Francis McGee, Executive Assistant at O. Long Law, LLC
Executive Assistant

Francis McGee

Ellie Zwart, Paralegal at O. Long Law, LLC
Paralegal

Ellie Zwart

Nia Gray, Office Manager at O. Long Law, LLC
Office Manager

Nia Gray

Maddie Wakley, Paralegal Manager at O. Long Law, LLC
Paralegal Manager

Maddie Wakley

What People Actually Ask Us About Divorce Mediation

These are the questions we hear most often from couples considering divorce mediation in Illinois.

Is Divorce Mediation Less Expensive Than Going to Court?

In many situations, yes. Because mediation often reduces court appearances, formal discovery, and prolonged litigation, it can be significantly less expensive than a contested divorce.

How Long Does Divorce Mediation Take?

The timeline depends on the complexity of the issues involved and the willingness of both parties to participate in good faith. Many mediation cases resolve faster than traditional contested divorce cases.

What Happens if We Can't Reach an Agreement?

If mediation does not fully resolve all issues, unresolved matters may still proceed through negotiation, litigation, or court proceedings. However, mediation often narrows disputes and simplifies remaining issues.

Is Everything Discussed in Mediation Confidential?

Generally, mediation discussions are confidential and cannot be used later in court in most circumstances. This often encourages more open and productive conversations.

Can Mediation Help Us Create a Parenting Plan?

Absolutely. Parenting plans are one of the most common issues addressed in mediation. Couples can work together to create schedules, holiday arrangements, decision-making responsibilities, and communication guidelines.

What Are the Benefits of Divorce Mediation?

Mediation often provides greater control, lower costs, faster resolutions, improved communication, reduced conflict, and more customized agreements than traditional litigation.

Reviews

Trusted During Difficult Times

Real clients on what it's like to have us in their corner.

"I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with Attorney Olivia St. Clair Long for almost a decade. I cannot say enough positive things about her as a person, how she practices law, and her character. I team up with her so I do not have to go against her, and her work is second to none! While Olivia will fight hard for her clients, she is also able to switch over to settlement mode with the same tenacity and in the interests of gaining the legal relief her clients request. Being in her field of law is quite emotional. I am impressed at how compassionate Olivia is with her clients, especially given the high stress matters she is retained therein"
"I had an excellent experience working with the team at O. Long Law, during a very challenging time in my life. The attorneys and paralegals were knowledgeable, compassionate, and always took the time to explain every step of the divorce process clearly. They handled my case with professionalism and made me feel confident that my best interests were being protected. Communication was consistent and timely, which helped reduce a lot of my stress. I would highly recommend this firm to anyone in need of reliable and supportive legal representation."
"Jessica was my representing attorney for my prenup. After being initially intimidated by the idea of a prenup, I felt comfortable talking with her. She is amazingly intelligent and personable. She went line-by-line through the draft prenup, explained everything to me, and made edits based on my feedback. She even thought ahead on things that I wouldn’t have even considered. I would recommend her to any of my friends needing representation."
"Olivia gave me advice in a high-conflict divorce situation - pro bono publico- and offered sound, clear and loving guidance. It was so clear to me that she is infinitely knowledgable and clear-headed. Strongly recommend. If you are part of a queer family, recommendation is even stronger, though I'm certain she'd represent everyone with care and honor."
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What To Expect During Your Free Consultation.

Whether you're ready to move forward or just have questions, the first conversation is free, confidential, and on your terms. Tell us what's going on, and we'll outline what comes next.

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