Illinois Collaborative Divorce Lawyers

Resolve Divorce Together
Without Going to Court

Collaborative divorce helps couples work toward solutions instead of litigation. Through a structured, team-based process, spouses commit to resolving issues respectfully, privately, and outside of court whenever possible. Our goal is to help families protect relationships, preserve resources, and move forward with less conflict.

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How We Handle Collaborative Divorce

We Help Families Resolve Divorce
Through Collaboration

Not every divorce needs to become a fight. Collaborative divorce allows spouses to work together with trained professionals to resolve parenting, financial, and legal issues in a private and respectful environment. The focus shifts from winning against each other to creating solutions that work for everyone involved.

What Is Collaborative Divorce?

Collaborative divorce is a process where both spouses agree to resolve their divorce outside of court. Each spouse has their own attorney, and everyone commits to working together to negotiate solutions rather than litigate disputes.

How Is Collaborative Divorce Different From Mediation?

In mediation, a neutral mediator facilitates discussions. In collaborative divorce, each spouse has their own attorney throughout the process, and additional professionals such as financial experts or divorce coaches may also participate when needed.

Is Collaborative Divorce Right for Everyone?

Not always. Collaborative divorce works best when both spouses are willing to communicate, exchange information honestly, and commit to problem-solving. High-conflict situations involving abuse, coercion, or hidden assets may require a different approach.

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Here's How We Handle
Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative divorce provides a structured roadmap for resolving disputes while avoiding unnecessary courtroom battles. The process encourages transparency, cooperation, and long-term decision-making focused on the family's future.

Initial Consultation & Collaborative Assessment

Building the Collaborative Team

Information Sharing & Goal Setting

Collaborative Meetings & Problem Solving

Final Agreement & Divorce Completion

1. Initial Consultation & Collaborative Assessment

We begin by discussing your goals, concerns, and whether collaborative divorce is a good fit for your situation. We explain the process, expectations, and benefits so you can make an informed decision.

2. Building the Collaborative Team

Each spouse retains their own attorney, and depending on the circumstances, neutral professionals such as financial specialists, divorce coaches, or child specialists may join the process to help address specific issues.

3. Information Sharing & Goal Setting

Both parties exchange relevant financial information and identify the issues that need to be resolved. Transparency early in the process helps build trust and reduce future disputes.

4. Collaborative Meetings & Problem Solving

A series of structured meetings are held to discuss parenting plans, financial issues, support obligations, property division, and future goals. The focus remains on finding practical solutions rather than creating winners and losers.

5. Final Agreement & Divorce Completion

Once agreements are reached, the terms are documented and submitted to the court for approval. Couples leave with legally binding agreements and a foundation for moving forward.

Working With Us

Here's What You Can Count On

Family law cases run long. The right working relationship matters as much as the right legal strategy. These are the standards we hold ourselves to, every day, from your first call through your final order.

Communication Standard

We respond to every client message within one business day, often the same day. When your attorney is in court, the team responds first so you always know we have heard you.

Who Makes The Decisions

We explain your options in plain English, give you our recommendation, and tell you the tradeoffs. We never settle, file a motion, or commit you to anything without your written authorization.

Billing Transparency

Every invoice is itemized so you see exactly what we did and what it cost. If a strategic choice will add meaningful cost, we tell you before we do the work.

Documentation Rhythm

After every hearing, negotiation, or strategic decision, you get a written summary of what happened, what was decided, and what comes next. You always have a record to re-read when the moment is calmer.

Our Team

Meet The Team Families Trust
During Difficult Times

We help families navigate divorce, custody, child support, mediation, LGBTQ family law, and complex financial matters. Our approach is direct: clear communication, practical strategy, and a steady hand through every decision.

Olivia Long, Founder & Principal Attorney at O. Long Law, LLC
Olivia Long
Founder & Principal Attorney

Olivia practices family law to help others add value to their lives.

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Alexandra Neukirch, Of Counsel at O. Long Law, LLC
Alexandra Neukirch
Of Counsel

Alex became a lawyer to help clients through life's toughest moments.

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Jessica Mansbacher Kibbe, Family Law Attorney at O. Long Law, LLC
Jessica Mansbacher Kibbe
Family Law Attorney

Jessica practices family law to be a steadfast guide through challenging times.

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Legal Assistant

Lizbeth Reyes-Guzman

Francis McGee, Executive Assistant at O. Long Law, LLC
Executive Assistant

Francis McGee

Ellie Zwart, Paralegal at O. Long Law, LLC
Paralegal

Ellie Zwart

Nia Gray, Office Manager at O. Long Law, LLC
Office Manager

Nia Gray

Maddie Wakley, Paralegal Manager at O. Long Law, LLC
Paralegal Manager

Maddie Wakley

What People Actually Ask Us About Collaborative Divorce

These are the questions we hear most often from couples exploring collaborative divorce in Illinois.

Why Do Couples Choose Collaborative Divorce?

Many couples choose collaborative divorce because it allows them to maintain greater control over decisions, reduce conflict, protect privacy, and often avoid the emotional and financial costs of litigation.

Is Collaborative Divorce Less Expensive Than Litigation?

In many situations, yes. While every case is different, collaborative divorce often avoids many of the expenses associated with lengthy court battles, costly evaluations, and extensive litigation.

What Happens if We Cannot Reach an Agreement?

If the collaborative process breaks down, both attorneys must withdraw, and the parties would need to hire new litigation attorneys if they choose to proceed through court. This requirement encourages everyone to remain committed to finding solutions.

Do We Still Have to Disclose Financial Information?

Yes. Honest and complete financial disclosure is a cornerstone of the collaborative process. Transparency helps build trust and allows informed decisions to be made.

How Long Does Collaborative Divorce Take?

The timeline depends on the complexity of the issues and the willingness of both spouses to work together. Many collaborative divorces are completed faster than traditional contested divorces.

What Types of Issues Can Be Resolved Through Collaborative Divorce?

Parenting plans, child support, maintenance, property division, retirement accounts, business interests, and other financial matters can all be addressed through the collaborative process.

Reviews

Trusted During Difficult Times

Real clients on what it's like to have us in their corner.

"I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with Attorney Olivia St. Clair Long for almost a decade. I cannot say enough positive things about her as a person, how she practices law, and her character. I team up with her so I do not have to go against her, and her work is second to none! While Olivia will fight hard for her clients, she is also able to switch over to settlement mode with the same tenacity and in the interests of gaining the legal relief her clients request. Being in her field of law is quite emotional. I am impressed at how compassionate Olivia is with her clients, especially given the high stress matters she is retained therein"
"I had an excellent experience working with the team at O. Long Law, during a very challenging time in my life. The attorneys and paralegals were knowledgeable, compassionate, and always took the time to explain every step of the divorce process clearly. They handled my case with professionalism and made me feel confident that my best interests were being protected. Communication was consistent and timely, which helped reduce a lot of my stress. I would highly recommend this firm to anyone in need of reliable and supportive legal representation."
"Jessica was my representing attorney for my prenup. After being initially intimidated by the idea of a prenup, I felt comfortable talking with her. She is amazingly intelligent and personable. She went line-by-line through the draft prenup, explained everything to me, and made edits based on my feedback. She even thought ahead on things that I wouldn’t have even considered. I would recommend her to any of my friends needing representation."
"Olivia gave me advice in a high-conflict divorce situation - pro bono publico- and offered sound, clear and loving guidance. It was so clear to me that she is infinitely knowledgable and clear-headed. Strongly recommend. If you are part of a queer family, recommendation is even stronger, though I'm certain she'd represent everyone with care and honor."
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